Month: July 2014

Self-Improvement and Drastic Results

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This week started on a strong note in terms of personal development and the unexpected results were astounding.

Leading in to the week, this is where I stood:

√ Eating healthy home-cooked breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks
√ Hitting the gym twice a day (strength training and then swimming)
√ Sleeping seven hours per night
√ Texting and talking to several girls

On Monday, I was accepted into a Trade School and approved for funding from the government – This is the first milestone that I have reached since swallowing the Red Pill. It is safe to say that my level of self-esteem drastically increased. What is more important, however, is the fact that I haven’t slowed down; I continue to build and build with success seeming to fall in place. The greatest improvement thus far has been my body: I have officially shed 30lbs and am seeing the outline of a six pack.

This, in turn, has surprisingly brought on attention from the girls in my current line-up and attracted one new girl. I now find it difficult to respond to their text messages as quickly as I was before. I am dedicating more time to myself… four of the eight girls are working quite hard to set up a day this week to meet with me as result of this.

The moral of the story: keep focusing on self-improvement and it will draw more women to crave me.

Using Women Against Women to Build Attraction

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I learned something this past weekend that I intend to do again and figured it may be worth writing down.

A close friend celebrated his birthday on Saturday with a backyard keg party. Due to his marriage last year, I assumed that the prospects for single women would be minimal; add in the fact that kegs typically bring more penis to the party and you catch my drift. Suffice to say that a “date” was necessary.

Leading up to the big event, I had been texting with a girl named Priscella, who I am not especially attracted to, but enjoy chatting with. It is safe to say that she wants something from me, but I imagine it involves monogamy, which I am not ready for. Priscella was very excited to see me again at this party and was probably thinking that this was her chance to win me over. Knowing that this may be part of her plan (and fearful that I may give in sexually while intoxicated), I decided that Hollie would be a good date for the evening.

Hollie is my FWB who has admitted feelings for me, but I know she’ll get naked with me and have awesome sex after the party. She is also more attractive (7) than Priscella (5.5). I calculated the outcomes as such:

1. Priscella gets jealous and stops contacting me
2. Priscella gets jealous and attempts to increase attraction
3. Priscella concludes that I’m an asshole and causes drama

Thankfully, no social outbursts were created. Gotta be prepared though, right?

It was funny in some ways to watch Hollie and Priscella interact – it was an oddball female showdown that would take too long to describe. Imagine the Discovery Channel episode on female lions fighting for control in the pack and that’s how it all drew out.

By the end of the night, Priscella had no interest in talking to me and I was comfortable losing her from my current line-up. Was I ever startled on Monday when she upped her game with sexting and nude pics! This is completely out of character for her, so I know what has happened. She’s become more aggressive trying to set up a time to meet.

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Many of my manosphere idols have spoken of social value and High Value Males. I was able to watch these “theories” as they became practical knowledge, unfolding before my eyes.

I will use this tactic again and note the results. There are two flakes in my current line-up that may respond positively to this…will write about it once it has been attempted.

Online Dating for Casual Sex

Online dating is often frowned upon by Return of Kings and is viewed in this way for good reason:

1. There is no real rejection
2. Excess time editing profile
3. Easy for girls to flake

I use online dating for sex and only sex. I am not interested in taking some girl off the internet out on a date and dropping cash when I don’t have a job.

I use OK Cupid and describe what I’m looking for in the following way:

If I have contacted you in search of “casual sex”, I don’t mean to insult you by any means. I have found you physically attractive, yet interesting in such a way that I am enthusiastic about a conversation or get-together with you. I would just like to be completely honest in what I’m searching for and not “mislead” you in any way.

Should you find me attractive, let’s start chatting – if not, I do apologize if the message was unwelcome.”

That is obviously only a brief portion of my profile. I highly recommend the website below to assist in choosing the right photos.
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/get-laid-plenty-of-fish/

Typically, one new girl messages me per week – sometimes she looks good, sometimes she doesn’t. When an unattractive girl sends a message, I do not respond, as I want my profile to read “Replies Selectively” in bold red letters. I want to appear as a High Value Male and this prevents me from looking like I’ll have sex with whomever contacts me.

I have a few rules:

1. Get her name immediately
2. Respond quickly, while she’s online
3. Ask for phone number within 10 messages

I’ve met some amazing girls off of online dating and do use it. At this point in time, I’m using online apps as a crutch, but my confidence is building and will directly improve my pick-up skills in real world environments.

I’ll discuss some of my encounters soon…