I stumbled upon a “golden rule” of dating that women apply that not only caught my attention, but blew my mind when I realized the truth behind it. As men, we often neglect to view the world from other perspectives and are oblivious to some of the tactics used by the opposite sex.
This is the unspoken fact that modern women can count on: “One of the Golden Rules of dating is that you can always fuck a hotter guy than you can get a commitment from.”
The simplicity behind it is amazing. At the same time, the information is gut wrenching.
I need not dig into this golden rule; knowing that it is an element of dating and relationships is valuable enough.
In an effort to uncover more of these “golden rules”, I scoured the internet for women’s dating advice. Here is the unedited collection of advice that female pick-up artists have passed along through websites, blogs, etc. to the girls of this generation.
Only put in 30% effort.
Make him come to you. This is especially true for the first few dates. If you go to his house on the first date instead of him coming to pick you up, I have two words for you, Booty Call.
You should not accept a date on Wednesday or Thursday for that weekend. You are a busy woman.
Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.
Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady’s prerogative.
If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.
Dating one man at a time, will only allow you to find one loser at time
Avoid two things in life: cheap shoes and cheap men
Be a Responder, not a Hunter. Hunters are men. You are not a man.
Busy is just “Busy”– don’t explain. Be happy and aloof when explaining that you are busy for the night.
Never be available when he wants you to be.
Use pet names such as “honey” or “sweetheart” to avoid mixing up their names when dating multiple guys.
Want to hook up? Do it.
Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you.
When on vacation, slut it up hardcore if you know you never have to see him again
Never return a call or text immediately. Remember, you are busy, busy, busy.
Wait at least four hours to answer a text
Don’t answer after midnight
Always respond with fewer words than he’s texted to you.
Wait 24 to 48 hours to confirm a friend request from him and NEVER write on his wall or ‘like’ his status updates.
Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.
Granted, not all women will take these tidbits of advice to heart, nor will they apply them to every single man. The female sex does use “game”, just like we do though.
I am, however, hoping to discover more of these unspoken golden rules that exist. If you know of any, please add them to the comments to assist other young men that are on the journey. As one website wrote: “Just like with children who will tell you they don’t want rules, men function much better and are happier with them.”