In the previous article “Red Pill Loneliness“, we acknowledge that isolation occurs with change. The decision to “unplug” and take the Red Pill has consequences, one of which includes losing friends.
Building a new network can be a tiresome venture, but the investment pays off. Having alpha male friends rather than betas will surely change your life in a positive way.
It has taken me an entire year to do it, but I now have three best friends that consistently display alpha traits. Here are the pros and cons of having this type of man as a friend:
Your dedication to the gym, fitness activities, and sports will increase. You may or may not partake in these events with the Alpha male, but your athletic goals will be pushed.
You will eat healthier and learn to cook some interesting dishes because these men take care of their bodies
You will meet new women. Alpha men will approach and their natural charisma will provide you with opportunities.
More women will approach you and your group. Girls will be drawn in to the dominant male(s) in any room.
You will feel more masculine. Your body language will change, your self-esteem will improve, and your communication style will adapt.
You don’t have to worry about a true Alpha male fucking your girlfriend or cockblocking you. They can get their own pussy.
You will still experience loneliness due to the fact that Alpha men live busy lives. Between lists of responsibilities, partying, and gym time, they will not always be available.
Because Alpha men are frequently out on the town, you will find yourself spending more money.
Although Alpha men are admired in many social circles, they have a knack for making enemies, sparking jealousy, and making others angry.
Alpha males won’t put up with your shit. If you start to fail or fizzle out, don’t expect them to carry you for too long. If you screw them, you can be sure they’ll drop you permanently from their friends list.
How Do You Meet Alpha Males?
Simple. That guy in the room that’s getting all the positive attention and commands respect? That’s him. I find that their are only a few ways to connect with these types of men:
1. Find a common enemy. This may prove difficult, but this type of bond is concrete.
2. Share a story about the girl that broke your heart and how you’ve overcome it. These men have fallen in love too; this discussion will show his weaker, empathetic side.
3. Talk about your gym schedules, routines, etc.
Bonding with these stronger men may be intimidating at first. Drop the beta behaviour and go get a top tier friend.